Reference: Mohd Hasim, M. J., Hashim, N. H., & Mustafa, H. (2023). Married life: Measuring adult romantic attachment and satisfaction. Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, 12(3), 119–131. https://doi.org/10.1037/cfp0000188 What does marriage look like in other countries? Researchers examined romantic attachment styles and marital satisfaction among married individuals in Malaysia, where cultural influence and societal norms may lead to differing marital dynamics. They distributed questionnaires to 400 married persons in Penang, Malaysia, divided equally among Indian, Chinese, and Malay ethnic groups and marriages in different parental stages: childless, early parental stage, to post parental when children have left home. Results? Researchers found four attachment styles between marital partners. 61% reported having a secure attachment style with higher marital satisfaction, meaning they have affection and trust toward their partners and are comfortable with each other. The remaining groups were equal: dismissive attachment style (tending to avoid intimacy, fearing closeness, and distrusting others), fearful (fear losing their partner but crave closeness), and preoccupied (need for independence, thus avoids conflict). Couples with secure attachments were the most satisfied. Malaysian culture, marked by the community keeping the peace, values interpersonal harmony above personal preference. Thus, devotion to the societal group significantly shapes attachment styles, and many individuals acquiesce in resolving conflicts. How does your upbringing and culture impact your attachment style and marital satisfaction? See a marriage therapist to enhance your romance!

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